2020 - June 17th - Wednesday

The events of last week were probably not a heart attack or stroke, but we will still mention it to my mom's Dr.  Its a busy week this week.  Mom wants to get a haircut tomorrow which is hard during the COVID-19 days of Phase 1.5, she has a Dentist appointment on Friday at 11:30am, a Dr appointment on Monday in Seattle about her arthritis and another Tuesday about her Kidney.  Wednesday is her Birthday at 90.  We are all meeting at the house for a social distance June Bash.  I have a lot of work to get done to be ready.

Mom's memory is getting worse.  Its event based, but she doesn't not remember stuff from days or weeks or months earlier.  The funny thing is she will say "You didn't tell me" or "I never knew that" rather than I didn't remember.  I think because when a healthy person is reminded of something, they then recall the memory or pieces of it.  She doesn't recall it at all often.  For somethings she remembers great.  Party coming up, appointments, stuff she wants me to do.  I hope its slow and I think it is.

Not doing well about her weight.  Doesn't help when I'm depressed and all I want to do is sit around.  I need to find ways to get her up on a regular basis.  I need to do better.

I find myself getting short with her more and more.  She argues with me over something she does not remember or she bugs me about something over and over because of anxiety.  I need to not get roused and need to be better.  I need to understand this is a condition.  It would be like yelling at someone about their MS.

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